That is a woman with HIGH Interest Level and that’s what I teach guys to look for – a woman with HIGH Interest Level because it’s only her Interest Level that matters – not yours. When you’re really into a girl you want her to be just as equally into you. If you’d rather live in her world than live without her in yours then you start to understand the reciprocal feelings you should be getting. So, what matters is how interested she is! Why is that? Of course not!

You see, I assume you’re interested by the virtue of you walking up, meeting her, asking for her number and trying to get her out on date 1 – unless you’re a complete moron then those are signs you’re interested! So, what matters is how interested she is! I have some guys that will call me on my Dating Women Radio Show (Google “Dating Women Radio Show” so you can listen to me weekly for free) When you’re really into a girl you want her to be just as equally into you.

Does that make her a bad person because she prioritizes career over your relationship? Of course not! By the same token that shouldn’t mean that you want to spend the rest of the life with her either because dating has a funny way of leading to marriage. When you’re really into a girl you want her to be just as equally into you. If you’d rather live in her world than live without her in yours then you start to understand the reciprocal feelings you should be getting.

Ah, here’s the rub – love to a man could be one of a hundred things – but love to a woman is everything – a good woman anyway. If she is prioritizing anything over the love she has for you – including a career move – then she’s not really in love with you. It is the woman’s Interest Level that will drive relationships and you can never let your ego get in the way and rationalize anything less than you being number one in her life Select the wrong girl and that could be your fate!